Saturday, August 25, 2007

Nawaid...

I met Nawaid Anjum in Asian Age. He was with the Features, while I was working with the Newsdesk at that time. He came across a sweet soul. And he is. We never went beyond a hello, for the first eight months. When I was moved to the Features, it is then when I got to know him better.
I still taunt him that he bullied me into taking all the calls and subbing endless NYT's. He always has the same reply, “No, come on, I couldn’t have bullied you, don’t say that.” I laugh it off as usual.
I don’t exactly remember, when we became good friends, confidants (if i can say). We sort of formed a gang (Ruchi, Rajesh, Nawaid, Me) and later of course, Zafar saab, Randy joined the league. We four were harmless souls, often hanging out together, sometimes lazily on the terrace, smoking and cursing the obnoxities being levied on us.
We laughed, consoled and supported each other (all four I mean). Until, I met Nawaid, I didn’t believe that a platonic friendship can be formed. I guess, I met all the wrong guys (lol).
Like I said, we became each other’s strength, holding up if the other fell. We all were there for one another, we didn’t have to shout it out. From helping in subbing, to making pages, from fighting to patching up, we have done it all.
First blow to our gang came when Ruchi left Age. She was to get married in two months. It was sad to let her ago, but we had to come to terms with it. Atleast, there was still Nawaid, Rajesh, Zafar saab, Randy and me left. Then few months later, even Zafar saab quit.. it was a major blow, coz he was like a pillar to all of us. A sensible person, who always guided us. With him gone, only Rajesh, Nawaid and me were left from Features. It wasn’t the same, but we became even closer. Our regular trips to the terrace for a cup of chai+gossip was enough to sustain us. :) But good times don’t last and Rajesh quit too. So now, there was only me, Nawaid and Randy so to speak. But something had changed between me and Nawaid. We were still close friends, colleagues, but this time, he was I guess in between falling in love syndrome. So, we didn’t speak much, shared much. I thought I almost lost a good friend. I guess I told him once and he was shocked. “How can you say such a thing Saumya.” By the way, Zafar saab and Nawaid had coined a new name for me..rather names. “Sumaiya.... and Sumi.” :) It is only them who address me by these names, and it is special.
So I was saying, while Nawaid was in that state, I was beginning to feel lonely.. we thought of leaving Age. We often chatted about it. But now he has eventually moved on. He has left Age and now I am all by myself. Everybody has gone, and I have no one to go up for tea with. (Randy you are still there, but we hardly talk.) It is time to, I guess to move on too. Inshallah..God show me a miracle please. Amen

4 comments:

adonis said...

hmmmm
Somu...
how can u think like dat ? u r not alone...m always der for u dear...
u know when i joined Age...sumone told me dat "U" r d sweetest colleague but i found out dat ur not just sweetest colleague but a darling....really Somu u r a dear frnd... u know i shared everything with u but u know nature of my work.Sometimes, i too felt this but i have to fulfill my work comitment too............i hope u can understand....
n don't feel loney, m always der.............
love
randy

Unknown said...

hmmmmm...u dnt mention that we called u sumayyyyyyya as well....probably since i left no one called u dat...dats wy da memory lapse...anyways life has somthng great for u in store...just wait n watch...it isn't far..achche logon se sath achcha hota, i thnk i said it to u once..
and m always afriad of ur mood swings...otherwise u r a sweatheart..
TC
Zaf

Nawaid Anjum said...

hey saumya!! thanks for yr sweeet words...u may be wondering wy i am responding sooo late even though d entire entry z on me...well, i guess i don't NEED to say it all coz u understand my silence more dan my words...let me tell u, dat U ARE d sweetest soul in d world, d most caring, d most compasionate...And in d wrecked world of my relationships, u are like a beacon of joy, a song of life...as for d 'love syndrome' u mention, was, in hindsight, nothing but an ILLUSION....I hope that u wud continue to spread smile, joy and laughter around...And lemme tell u dat no matter what I am or where I am I will continue to treasure every single day at AGE with u....yes, even when I am not around....U r a special, a very special friend....and will always be so..wish u eons of joy, centuries of laughter!!!

Swati Nitin Gupta said...

Hmmm! I somehow knew that I was never part of that 'Gang' though you and Nawaid were the only two people I was really close with in the Asian Age.

Anyway I just wanted to tell you that you have been the most cherished friend of mine ever since I met you!

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